Why people lie?
There are a lot of reasons: some people lie, because they are afraid to admit the truth, others lie because of traumas, when they were kids, some of them lie on purpose, just like that.
The worst feeling is, when you fall in love with a liar, but you don't even know, what is he like. You believe his lies over and over again, just because you are completely sure, that he loves you so much, you love him. You can't admit yourself, your boyfriend is a psychic liar. If your boyfriend lies to you about (real) important things or situations, you will be probably worried about little things - where he is, what he is doing or if he is cheating on you, again. You can never completely trust people like him. Why? They are just too good at lying. This is their profession. This is bigger problem for people in long – distance relationship. Love can't work without trust, honesty and respect.
Signs of lying in relationship
• He doesn't tell you, where he is and who is he with.
• When you want to check his social media on his phone, he simply takes his phone away from you. He takes his phone with him – no matter where he goes, even to bathroom.
• He gets upset, when you mention specific topics such as cheating, other girls.
• You can't see his conversations with others, because he delets them.
• When you ask him the same question, his answer is always different
• He is quiet, when you know the truth and ask him about it
• You don't know his passwords, because he doesn't want you to have them.
• He is active on social media, but you don't get a text back.
• He isn't picking up his phone, when you call him.
Every truth comes out, so don't worry. You must know – your lover won't admit the truth for the first time, he will deny it and come up with new excuses over and over again. Denying is manipullation, nothing else. Maybe he wants you to fall for his lies, again. Because he is afraid of losing you. He could have thought about it sooner, right? He shouldn't lie to you, hurt you or break your agreement with him. Don't listen to him. You know what you saw, so believe your eyes. Trust only yourself and your instincts.
Breakup it's the best way to quit situation. If talking to him about it, didn't help, this is it.
Yes, it's hard for you. You loved him, believed him, forgot his lies over and over again. You keep telling yourself, that he loved you, you can't live without him and so on. This isn't true. This is a lie, you keep telling yourself. You will get over it. You won't trust anybody for a long time. Cry, if you need to.
But you just need to know, this isn't your fault. He lied to you, remember? You ain't loser, he is. He lost you because of his stupidity.
You deserve better. You are young, beautiful and the whole life is in front of you.
So, don't waste it because of stupid jerks.
